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Fear of Success — The Damage That Starts After Things Go Well (Part 4)

27/08/202627/08/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a woman at her desk beside a congratulations card and flowers, not reaching — fear of success starts here.

This entry is part 4 of 7 in the series Self-Sabotage: Why You Keep Getting in Your Own Way

The collapse never comes during the struggle — it comes after the win. Self-sabotage after success isn’t random damage. It’s restoring a familiar position.

Self Sabotage — The Small Choices That Undo the Big Ones (Part 2)

26/08/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a woman at the open refrigerator at night, lit by its glow — self sabotage before you notice deciding.

This entry is part 2 of 7 in the series Self-Sabotage: Why You Keep Getting in Your Own Way

Big plans rarely collapse all at once. Small daily reversals — the snack, the purchase, the skipped session — undo them quietly. Here’s what they protect.