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Why Do I Push People Away — What Happens When You Stay (Part 4)

19/08/202616/03/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a woman sitting close to a man on a couch, not pulling away, the moment after you stop asking why do I push people away.

This entry is part 4 of 5 in the series When You Pull Back

Why do I push people away even when everything is going right? See what happens when you stop retreating and simply stay until something begins to shift.

Almost Relationship — The Type You Keep Choosing (Part 3)

19/08/202615/03/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a woman standing in a doorway with hand on the frame, the held pause before stepping into an almost relationship.

This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series When You Pull Back

The alarm doesn’t go off when things go wrong. It goes off when things go well. If closeness feels like a warning, here’s what’s actually happening.