Taking On Other People’s Emotions — You Know This (Part 2)
Taking on other people’s emotions can feel like empathy, but the pattern often reveals something deeper: the role you keep taking in relationships.
Taking on other people’s emotions can feel like empathy, but the pattern often reveals something deeper: the role you keep taking in relationships.
You read a mood before anyone speaks, already softening, already bracing. Emotional hypervigilance is a scan that never shuts off.
You didn’t choose feeling responsible for others’ feelings—you learned it, young, from someone whose moods you had to manage just to feel safe.
You keep apologizing when it’s not your fault, taking on feelings that were never yours to fix. Here’s how that responsibility quietly took root.