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Signs of a Situationship — Why They Start Before You Notice (Part 2)

16/08/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a couple walking through an Ikseon-dong alley, close but not quite together — the early signs of a situationship.

This entry is part 2 of 12 in the series Why You Keep Almost Choosing This

Nobody decides to start one — they just don’t decide not to. The early signs of a situationship show up before it has a name, in the choices no one quite makes.

Stuck in the Wrong Major — The Same Decision, Made Again (Part 3)

20/08/202609/05/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a woman waking up at 7:30, dreading another day stuck in the wrong major.

This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series The Major You Chose for the Wrong Reasons

Your third semester feels different, but it isn’t. Same classes, same exhaustion, same regret. You survive repetition, but survival isn’t choice.