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People Pleasing and Boundaries — Why They Don’t Hold (Part 8)

25/08/202604/08/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of woman standing at her front door, people pleasing and boundaries recalculating before she decides.

This entry is part 8 of 15 in the series Why You Can't Stop People Pleasing

People pleasing and boundaries break down after they’re set, not when they’re set. The system that generated the people pleasing keeps running. Here’s why.