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Feeling Invisible — When Being Liked Isn’t Being Seen (Part 9)

31/08/202615/06/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of woman sitting in a traditional Korean pavilion, feeling invisible despite the mountains around her.

This entry is part 9 of 10 in the series The Cost of Being Easy

Everyone says you’re easy to be around. But feeling invisible while being constantly liked is its own quiet, exhausting kind of lonely.

Receiving Love Anxiety — What You Do With Kindness (Part 2)

20/08/202618/04/2026 by Kam Su Jin

Illustration of a woman raising both hands, smiling nervously as someone offers a gift, receiving love anxiety in her deflection.

This entry is part 2 of 5 in the series When Being Loved Feels Wrong

Receiving love anxiety doesn’t look like rejection. It looks like a joke, a subject change, a quiet internal audit. This is the pattern underneath it.